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By: Anonymous
Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T05:18:27.693508Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T04:10:05.371971Z
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Date: 2023-08-18T19:56:45.087879Z
Thats a big question to answer bc our view for ourselves doesn't match with others. Either is better or worse. I believe that if you know yourself then u can do or don't whats right or wrong. I was always proud of myself even for my mistakes or decisions that either was for my future or my personal matters. I am an introvert Sagittarius even at 37 i have those moments but I'm there whenever u need me, I'm your crying shoulder I'm ready to kill fory family and my loved ones. I will hear you i will tell you my opinion but the choise is yours. So I'm proud of me and myself bc i haven't let anything to change me. I'll always be Evi !!!! P.s DON'T ALLOW ANYONE AND ANYTHING TO CHANGE U
Date: 2023-08-21T02:53:05.978963Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T04:35:33.801881Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T01:59:25.234510Z
When I achieve my goals that I have set out for myself and by others like my mentor who knows how to push me and allows me to make mistakes but is there when I need his advice. Me knowing that people who have said or even thought that I wasnt worth the time or energy to believe in are always proven wrong when I achieve my goals and they are still where they are at blamming everyone but themselves where they are. I have been around people who blame their life on the government not protecting them and giving others handouts but them when it's really about their choices in life of what they achive and don't achive. Everytime I achieve something I brag about it to myself everyday that "Hey I achieve that goal which I thought was so hard but really it was super easy so what's my next goal going to be and is it going to teach me a new skill or something new about myself that I just happen to wake up inside of me." That is how great people over come their problems and allow to improve themselves everyday. I also learn from not achieving goals that I need to find a different route to it because route a didn't work out for me but maybe route b will. Even if I fail from achieving the goal I know I try my hardest and I will be better next time I set that same goal. I also enjoy seeing the looks of my haters when they know that I'm achieving my goals and they arent because of their choices. It's all about believing in yourself and not listening to what others say about you that will make you succeed or fail. If you get the haters in your head with their negativity then they win but if you have them in your head as positive thoughts like "You wont make a million dollars in a year" instead you say "I wont make a million dollars in a year instead I will make a million dollars in 6 months." Then you have won the battle no matter what the out come is. Stay positive and use negative as the fuel for you to make your goals and so how much you have grown as a person.
Date: 2021-04-17T20:25:13.158910Z
So you're in a relationship but you don't know if it's healthy or toxic, and if it is toxic how can you deal with it? Do you end it or stay in it? These are questions most people ask themselves in relationships no matter if it's boyfriend/girlfriend, parents/children, friends, or husband/wife relationships. I've been in a toxic relationship with my husband. I got tired of trying to save just for him to make me feel bad that I had money and was 'lying' to him about being broke all the time. He new when and how much I was getting paid even through I didn't have direct deposit since it wasn't offered at my work. I had my own bank account but still he made me spend it by playing the guilty card or 'If you love me " card. When I told him what I was going to make for supper in the morning by the time I started cooking it or it was done he would come home and say "Let's go, I want Mexican food." Which first off made me upset here I am fixing dinner that you knew I was making and now you want to go out to eat. Secondly you keep saying we need to move to a bigger house and we need this or that and know we need to save since you make a big fuse over You can't get this tool or that toolbox just to loose it or get it ruined. Third off you just got a 'big' tip of $50 and can't save it because you want to spend it on food which wouldn't brother me if it came from a store where it could be used for multiple dinners instead of eating out once a week. Plus all your going to order is cheese enchiladas which I have the stuff to make the chicken enchiladas you like in the freezer. He would buy multiple tool sets just to loose them or let them get rusted. He brought me some tools then the next minute mine are gone since I used them last and put them up in the same area each time I got done plus mine were new and I cleaned them up after each use. Yes I know tools are meant to get dirty but if you respect your tools and clean them from time to time then you can past them down to your kids as a starter set then they can pass it down to their kids etc. what does my 'husband' do, uses my tool sets that he gave me for Christmas, birthday or anniversary, and then I'm looking for them their gone or rusted or broken. Him doing this made me feel pissed off and if I got me any tools he would do the same thing to them. When I told him about it he was like 'you don't need them anyway and I need them for work. I took them to work and so and so stole them . etc.' So many excuses about what happened to them but the the truth. I had a wake up call on my life when I went to an interview for a job. The guy asked me 'What makes you, you?' and after I left I thought about the question and what I said. Most of my answers were many my 'husband' not me. I was so much more than what I told the guy but all I could think was what I was around. I truly lost myself in the relationship by letting someone control me. No, he didn't tell me what or when to eat or what to wear but still I felt like I wasn't me anymore. I wanted to dye my hair different colors and he said no. one day n January 2018 I told him I wanted breast reduction he said OK but he wanted a divorce if I did it. I was like 'ok maybe that's him saying 'I love you the way you are." Then I said 'What if I found out that my birth mom had breast cancer and it runs in the family or I had signs of breast cancer can I then get it.' He goes 'yes but I still want a divorce." while smiling and laughing like its a joke.
Date: 2021-08-03T06:08:48.722932Z
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Date: 2019-06-29T21:00:43.887013Z
Evil twin of Valentina story line!! Based off a post on tumblr: https://overly-caffeinated-bi-potato.tumblr.com/post/183048574144/valentina-juliana-victoria-highkey-telenovela Please take a moment to read through it; it sounds like an amazing story.