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By: Anonymous
Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T00:33:25.752403Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T05:18:27.693508Z
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Date: 2023-08-20T04:10:05.371971Z
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Date: 2023-08-18T19:56:45.087879Z
Thats a big question to answer bc our view for ourselves doesn't match with others. Either is better or worse. I believe that if you know yourself then u can do or don't whats right or wrong. I was always proud of myself even for my mistakes or decisions that either was for my future or my personal matters. I am an introvert Sagittarius even at 37 i have those moments but I'm there whenever u need me, I'm your crying shoulder I'm ready to kill fory family and my loved ones. I will hear you i will tell you my opinion but the choise is yours. So I'm proud of me and myself bc i haven't let anything to change me. I'll always be Evi !!!! P.s DON'T ALLOW ANYONE AND ANYTHING TO CHANGE U
Date: 2023-08-21T02:53:05.978963Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T04:35:33.801881Z
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Date: 2023-08-19T01:59:25.234510Z
When I achieve my goals that I have set out for myself and by others like my mentor who knows how to push me and allows me to make mistakes but is there when I need his advice. Me knowing that people who have said or even thought that I wasnt worth the time or energy to believe in are always proven wrong when I achieve my goals and they are still where they are at blamming everyone but themselves where they are. I have been around people who blame their life on the government not protecting them and giving others handouts but them when it's really about their choices in life of what they achive and don't achive. Everytime I achieve something I brag about it to myself everyday that "Hey I achieve that goal which I thought was so hard but really it was super easy so what's my next goal going to be and is it going to teach me a new skill or something new about myself that I just happen to wake up inside of me." That is how great people over come their problems and allow to improve themselves everyday. I also learn from not achieving goals that I need to find a different route to it because route a didn't work out for me but maybe route b will. Even if I fail from achieving the goal I know I try my hardest and I will be better next time I set that same goal. I also enjoy seeing the looks of my haters when they know that I'm achieving my goals and they arent because of their choices. It's all about believing in yourself and not listening to what others say about you that will make you succeed or fail. If you get the haters in your head with their negativity then they win but if you have them in your head as positive thoughts like "You wont make a million dollars in a year" instead you say "I wont make a million dollars in a year instead I will make a million dollars in 6 months." Then you have won the battle no matter what the out come is. Stay positive and use negative as the fuel for you to make your goals and so how much you have grown as a person.
Date: 2019-07-15T06:27:00.593772Z
III. NURTURING Rafaela and Jessica go to the nearest coffee shop. At first, Rafaela is hesitant asking Jessica why she wasn’t at herself. Is she planning of committing suicide? Rafaela thought to herself. Jessica broke the silence by thanking Rafaela for not hitting her. Rafaela laughs and asks Jessica what was she’s thinking that time. When she is about to explain to Rafaela, her phone rings, Marco is calling. Jessica answers the phone reluctantly. Marco is worried because he didn’t get any response to all his text messages from his girlfriend since morning. They need to talk about the wedding. Jessica wants to escape after their discussion. But she must do what she needs to do. When Jessica is about to return to the table when she sees Rafaela writing something on a piece of paper napkin. She sees her face, her jawline and how serious is Rafaela while writing but with a bit smile on her face. Jessica grabs her small camera inside her bag and took a shot of Rafaela. Jessica never felt so excited when she sees the picture. Rafaela hurriedly hides the paper into her pocket when she sees Jessica is coming. Jessica needs to go. They exchange their phone numbers. Rafaela asks Jessica to promise her to call her if she’s not ok or she needed someone to talk to. Jessica is happy finding a new person in her life. They bid goodbye. That night, Jessica couldn’t sleep, she calls Rafaela. Her face is full of excitement hearing Rafaela’s voice. She could hear a background music playing on Rafaela’s line. Jessica is curious and asks Rafaela what she is doing. Rafaela tells that she is composing a song. She wants to listen to her favorite songs while doing it. They talk about their lives. Jessica tells everything to Rafaela about the coming wedding and why she is not excited about it. She talks about her firm and monotonous life. The pressure from family and work is killing her. She tells she needed to get out from all of it. In return, Rafaela tells Jessica about her bumpy life while chasing her dream of becoming a singer. How she manages to survive and meet a lot of people along the way. How she travels from one place to another performing from different bars and clubs. Confidently auditioning and singing her original composed songs. Of being rejected and starting all over again. They talk for hours and feel connected. Jessica never felt so ease after their long conversation. She falls asleep like a baby.
Date: 2023-01-08T20:06:30.829149Z
I got a new tattoo this week. Two words: cada quien. It’s a phrase often used in Spanish, or at least in Mexico. The English equivalent would be: to each their own. I say “cada quien” probably at least once per week, if not much more. It’s a reminder to practice empathy. To not judge and not take anything personally. A reminder to implement (and I mean truly implement) into my every day the understanding that everyone is living their own life, with their own preferences, battling their own demons, fighting their own struggles, and all perfectly designed for each person in relation to the journey and evolution that each person’s soul is going through in this specific lifetime. How then, can we possibly compare any one person to another? How can we possible judge someone else’s decisions? Based on what? We are not all the same, but we are all equally as important. Our souls are not all going through the same journey, but we are all going through A journey. It’s easy to get frustrated by people not meeting expectations, or not getting what you need from someone. “They should be like this” or “the right way to do it is this”. Whether it’s a parent, a partner, a sibling or a stranger. An important factor of cada quien is taking responsibility. Today, I take responsibility over my needs and recognize them as mine. I also recognize that each person has theirs and therefore nothing someone does is personal towards me, even though it can easily feel like it is. Each person has beliefs, needs, wants, and wounds specific to their life that influence who they are and the way they show up or don’t. By recognizing that it’s not about you, you can then separate yourself from it and get to know people for who they are, with no judgement. And then, you get to choose how or even if you want to relate yourself to that person. We don’t all need to think the same, or do the same, or want the same… we don’t all need to understand, agree or like each other, we just need to respect each other’s journeys. We just need to recognize that “cada quien”.
Date: 2019-07-26T19:51:18.896072Z
Hi, I am Sarah and maybe I am gay. Only a few friends know. I have never been with a girl but I have always had feelings for girls. I don’t look gay, I don’t talk gay and I have some gay friends. So my life is a mess and my family is the mess. My dad is an employee, my mum is flustered because she lost her work and because of her 4 daughters. I love them but it is so messy. Oh wait, I have already said that ! I am the eldest, 20 years old and probably gay, then after me Olivia (18), Soleil (17) and Ambre (15). Being maybe gay is complicated, you are always afraid of how people would react. My mum always asked us to be sincere with her. She always made jokes about me not having boyfriends and she wasn’t serious while asking me: “are you, I mean ... baby you can tell me, are you into girls ?”. That night, she wasn’t ready to hear my answer:”I think I am”. -Mum: come on ! Stop kidding me! -Me: I am serious -Mum: Olivia is she kidding me ? (By the way Olivia was the only one to know) -Olivia: mum you don’t get it ? I mean it is love the same of you and dad. We were cleaning after dinner, we had that conversation that lasted about 2 minutes until my mum got up, left to smoke a cigarette. I let her calm down. I didn’t want to cause her that pain. It is so complicated when your happiness is somebody’s struggle. The worst was about to come. Every night since that moment I heard my mum crying. I could clearly hear from my room: “why ? Why? It hurts”. My dad wasn’t there during that conversation, mum told him. The day after he called me to have a talk and he said:” you are my daughter and I accept you no metter what”. He hugged me, he accepted me. My mum kept on avoiding me. Maybe I should have waited, she was recently getting better after discovering that Ambre had sex with a guy that she has knows for 3 months. I am vergin, I am good at school, I am hard working but I am probably gay. The last conversation I had with my mum was: -Me: Mum we need to talk -Mum: I don’t want -Me: sorry mum but now I am pissed off! Holy shit man, Ambre had sex with a complete stranger and I am treated as the worst person in this world ? -Mum: because you are and you did worst. She didn’t mean those words. She is the best mum I swear and I was prepared for that reaction. After months everything went back to normality, after burying that secret, TOP SECRET. I am leaving. Mum I love you, but I am gay.